Sometimes
your heart tells you to help someone to find the right way but your mind tells
you that you have to let someone find its own way in order to grow. Sometimes
you feel good when you share what you have to someone but your mind tells that
it is better to teach someone how to find things for himself. Sometimes you
heart whispers that you have to understand and be kind to someone but your
minds shouts leave because you deserve someone better. Your heart cries for you
to stick to someone who has similar personality like you but your mind scolds
you that opposite attracts to each other. The difference between your heart andmind is that, your minds tells you the smart thing to do while your heart tells
you what you are going to do even things may be impossible. Your heart and mind
sometimes disagree, but it is up to you whose advice you are going to follow.
It
is very easy to do things that you are capable of, as well as do things that
are close to your heart. But it is very hard to make decision when your both
heart and mind disagree with each other. Since making decision is not like as
easy choosing what to eat for breakfast, choosing between red and blue or even
choosing where you are going to have a ride, a bus or taxi. You try to figure
things out. You try to scale advantages and disadvantages that will take you a
lot of time and concentration. And before you finally decide, the opportunity that
knocked is gone. That is the crashing and frustrating part of decision making.
Once you make decision, you have to stand for it even if you thought you can’t.
You have to stand for what you decide even if thing are not the way you used to
think. You have to be stiff in the decision you made for you to gain dignity
and reliability. You have to be strong to take the risk and consequences of the
decisions you made. You decide for the one that you know will help you grow not
only in the field of your career but also to your whole personality as a
person.
Many
people become successful with the decisions they made. We don’t know what could
they really thinking of. But for sure they based their decisions not only for
their own welfare but also for the welfare of other people. A woman decides to marry
a rich man in order to have a wealthy life and to share the blessings to her
family. An employer decides to spend a higher cost with advance and quality
tools for the company rather than the cheap ones.
Decision
making is really a great effort. But if you cannot decide for yourself, you
need the help of others. You can rely to the closest member of your family,
your most trusted friend, and call for assistance of a counselor or an adviser
while larger groups such as institutions and different organizations based
their moves from the help of business strategies consultants. Most of the time, the success of their business in
achieving their targets in time with the security of taking right decisions
depends on the market research company
that they have ran.
The ability to make a good decision with available
information is vital. It would be easy if there were one formula you could use
in any situation, but there isn't. Each decision presents its own challenges
and we all have different ways of approaching problems. Dealing with decisions
in a positive manner will really help to make decisions really work.
